In fact, I was ‘obsessed with this guy the first time I saw him; very smart, nice looking, and well dressed. He gave me a lift that day when I have closed from work and that was how everything started. He asked of my name, the work I do, and the place he can find me. I gave him all the answers he wants in less than 30 seconds. Was I hallucinating? No! Maybe, it was love at first sight. I told him I’m Elsie.

I also requested from him his name and the job he does. He took his time to tell me more about him. He said he Dickson and he works as a consultant in one of the big firms in this country. We exchanged contacts and that was all for the day.

He called the next day and he invited me to family dinner. He gave me the time he will pick me up and made me aware he is goings to introduce me to his family. I was a little surprised and was like; wow, so soon!

At dinner, he introduced me to his family as his girlfriend. Wait; in the first place he hasn’t proposed to me neither do we actually know much about ourselves but I remained silent and accepted it the way he wants it.

After the dinner, he took me to his apartment where I asked him the reason behind his decision to introduce me to his family as his girlfriend. He made it known to me he wanted to surprise me and that he loves me. I was a bit surprised though by his explanation but hey! I think I love him too.

We went to his room, sat there quietly without talking to each other for some time. He was on his bed and he invited me to come and sit closer to him of which I did. He wanted to have his way in but I didn’t agree to it. He tried several times to do it. I told him I want to leave but he disagreed with it. He said the door is locked and cannot be opened. So ‘I forced him to hit the door hard’ with harmer because he was afraid I may shout and the door opened. I left his room and board a passenger car to my house. Since then, he has blocked my number and I can’t reach him neither does he call me.



I shouldn’t have followed him to his bedroom and sat beside him on the bed. Yes, I know but sometimes, love makes you do crazy things.

Did I make a mistake of not allowing him to have sex with me the first day we met in his room or I did the right thing of leaving his room? I need some advice, please.